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I am Ayesha Alam from Bangladesh

I am Ayesha Alam from Bangladesh.  A lot of things were poking in my head about studying in Virginia. It was almost night when I arrived in Washington D.C.  We got a very warm welcome because our coordinator were waiting for us. The weather was good but still I was feeling very cold. We made our way to the apartment.

At first I was very scared of my apartment mates.  I was much confused about how I can cope up with them, will they ever accept me because I didn’t share my room with anyone before. But when I met them, I was really surprised seeing them very friendly and cooperative. Next day, we had a introductory session with all other students at the pool. And there’s nothing to compare with that moment. Even though I was scared a lot, but everyone appreciate me. They all were very humble, kind, helpful. So it made me more comfortable. We become a new family in Virginia with full of diversity.

My first day at NOVA was also unforgettable. All the students and teacher wanted to know my culture, tradition and customs. The teacher is also very supportive. I made so many friends at once and mingle with so many people from different background. It helped me a lot to develop relationships and mutual understanding with people around the world.

Community College Initiative (CCI) Program has increased my level so high. It teaches me to gain a global sense of citizenship. Everyday I am coming out of my comfort zone and learning something new from everyone. Americans are very punctual, discipline, open mindness. So, the life here is amazing. I am really grateful to the American Government, American people and everyone for making a new family member irrespective of my background only within weeks in U.S.A.

Post written by Ayesha Alam, 2017-2018 participant at NOVA-Annandale from Bangladesh

My Experience in First Two Weeks

I am Shruv. When I reached at Washington DC I was very scared, unknown country, unknown people, and unknown rules. There was a lot of thoughts in my mind, But when I came to my apartment I was just shocked my roommates were too friendly with me, which I never expected. They treat me as a younger brother.

When I went to the campus I was silent and I just talk to my few friends, but the other guys came to me and they want to know about me which I had lack in my country. Now every single day I feel like a celebrity everyone want to know about me, my culture, and my customs. My friends never said anything wrong about my English cause my English is not good yet.

After joining this program my confidence level is increased day by day, also I knew a very important thing that is ‘don’t judge a book by his cover’.

This program is not just going to teach me about my major subject this will also teach me how to be a good person in life. Not only this program every single participant taught me something. Sometimes I inspired by their lifes how they achieved this opportunity. Now I am able to know many countrys culture, ethics by their ambassador beside if this thinks we have  a guide a very caring guide miss Kate and Kelly who teach us how to deal with our problems and encouraging us.

So it is a very nice experience for me to join such a huge program and thank you so much.

The thing I most like about people they listen to me and they tell me what is good for me . Thank you so much for a beautiful journey which just begin now.

 

Post written by Shuvajit Saha, 2017-2018 CCI participant at NOVA-Alexandria from India

Touch Your Society

Coming from a country like South Africa that has a history of white supremacy and black oppression, I always knew that racial differences exist and are becoming problematic yet again in other countries including the United States of America. I had heard of people saying there are way too many racial issues in this country, I am fortunate so far to have never came across any racial prejudice but this has impacted my stay in this country in other ways. I am one person who loves having the television playing in the background when I study and often I’d be drawn by a racial incident involving a white cop and a black child, or some comment made to the Muslims / Mexican people. I can always feel the hair on my back stand up every time I see a police car; I am terrified to even help people in the street because the popular belief is that black people aren’t capable of any good deed. When I walk around campus, seeing Muslim students my heart aches with pain because I can almost smell their fear due to the current political climate that is building up in the country.

Hearing about how innocent people are killed and mistreated because of their race, religion, sexual orientation etc really boils my blood and it gives me even more motive to encourage people to travel more often and to connect with people outside their race, religion, tribe and country. And you probably asking yourselves why I’m talking about racial issues well let me take you out of the curiosity box: our scholarship program exists for cultural exchange, academic reasons and building relationships. It is important that we as beneficiaries of this program go back to our home countries and erase all this myths and stereotypes that exist in our own families and societies about other people.

I feel that it is now our responsibility to create world peace, honestly we cannot change the globe at once but if each and everyone one of us touches their society eventually the entire globe will see the light. Sometimes people are not even aware of their discriminating comments, not because they are ignorant but simply because they are not informed and were never exposed to a different group of people. We have been afforded the opportunity to learn about 13 different countries, their cultures, the traditions and their belief about other people-what now ? Now you go back home and be an ambassador for a world free of discrimination & the elimination of any supremacy.

The world is big enough for everyone to live in harmony and peace, without fear of being mistreated or killed for being different.

Post written by Ramaabele Millicent Mabotha, CCI participant at NOVA 2016-2017, South Africa

No need to be colored

Spending 10 months with people you never thought you will see or meet one day. People that you don’t choose to live with. People that you just heard about them through media. When you get to meet them and live with them it is just an awesome experience.

Have you ever asked yourself how it feels to sit by somebody who looks physically different from you?? Without even talking to that person? Yes I made it and did more than that. From Pakistan to Dominican Republic, passing by Indonesia, India, Bangladesh, Columbia, Ghana, South Africa, Turkey, Brazil, Yemen, even my own country, Côte D’Ivoire. What a great opportunity.  The best way for our world to come together is to communicate. It is true that it will be difficult the first time but isn’t it true that strength lies in diversity???

These simple things are not really taken into consideration but they are all linked. If only the world can see it. How important it is to learn from each other, regardless the color of the skin, or the differences. We have much more to learn.  We all complete each other. We are divided because we don’t understand. Let’s just take a little bit of our time to know each other. We just need to be open minded, we need to get out of our box to see how awesome it is to learn other culture.

Post written by Adjoke Therese Babalola, CCI participant at NOVA 2016-2017, Côte D’Ivoire

Building Peace In A Diverse Society

“What we have to do… is to find a way to celebrate our diversity and debate our differences without fracturing our communities”. Hillary Clinton.

The above-mentioned quote perfectly portrays a beautiful image of the American society and its culture. In this modern era where developed nations are doing research to shift mankind on the other planets from the planet earth, and on the same time nations of third world countries are still struggling for their basic needs of their life like, education, food, health, gender discrimination, women empowerment, injustice and rule of law is different for poor and rich. Although it is the responsibility of the state to equally facilitate its citizen with these all basic needs of life, but since the economy of the state is not stable, since its own expenses are managed through taking loans from international banks, how a country can do that? In the process of development and economic stability, a country has to face many external and internal challenges and currently, one of the main internal problems in my country is diversity which became weakness and a threat for its stability and economic development. When a nation is united, diversity can be power and when we split into groups then diversity become a threat to the stability of the country.

Growing up in a place where conflicts between religious and political groups are routine of daily life and being minority receiving threats from powerful groups is also a big challenge. During my studies, I have moved a lot inside my country and these conflicts vary from region to region. In some places, religious radicalism is the main element and in other parts, political division is one of the main reasons which divides our nation into minor groups. Personally, getting into trouble due to these issues were making me think about how and when we will be able to build peace in our society. Stories from developed countries were always fascinating me, and I was curious to see it personally that how these big states like the US, Canada, European countries and other developed countries are dealing with these challenges which are more diversified than the countries where we live in.

Today, I am lucky enough to experience few amazing months of my life with these cool minded people and this would never had happened without this great opportunity of CCI Exchange Program. Living with the fellows from twelve countries, sessions arranged on peace-building, visits to historical places like the Newseum, and through presentations on historical figures of black community, their continuous struggle for their rights gave me an insight about how these countries succeeded to build a peaceful environment for all the citizens with disregards their colors, beliefs, cast and nationality. From these all different experiences, I came up with few of the main findings which can help us in moving towards building a peaceful, safe, fearless and a happy environment for all the people in our countries including minorities.

First, Politics, secular education, and religion are three different things, and if all these institutions work within their limits then it can be helpful in building harmony and peace. Just educating the students and making familiar with these institutions is not a problem, but in developing countries, religious and political organizations are more influential and by using their powers these groups have damaged our education system very badly. Besides that, these both groups are the main reason for creating conflicts inside our educational institutions which further leads these conflicts on a higher level. Therefore, the involvement of these groups need to be discouraged inside educational institutions and instead of that, these institutions should provide different platforms for the youth to keep them engage in educational, positive and healthy activities.

Second, all the religions teach basic principle of humanity, but when we take our beliefs at extreme level, and when we try to impose our thoughts on other instead of convincing them or making them understand though a logical discussion or by inspiring them through our behavior and good deeds, and when we stop giving respect to others beliefs then it becomes a disaster in the process of building a peaceful society, which further becomes the one of the main barrier towards the development of a nation as whole.

Third, think tanks around the globe can easily predict the future any country through the engagement of its youth in different activities. Since we don’t have enough opportunities through government to keep our youth in positive activities, but being responsible citizens of the country, communities should provide platforms for their own youth to keep them engage in positive and healthy activities. It’s a saying “Evil comes into mind when we stay idle”. These positive activities will further lead our youth to make connections with like-minded people from other communities who will be engaging in the same kind of activities.

Further, “Diversity is the art of thinking independently together” Malcolm Forbes. Since my graduation, I have studied so many subjects in different institutions, but I have never studied something about diversity and its importance. Instead of that, we have focused on our own group “Sects” which has divided our society into minor groups. We start to introduce our self with the cast, region, province, and finally, if we don’t say something our beliefs, people will surely interrogate me which is totally  a personal matter, and if we found some religious differences then we must have some negative stereotypes regarding their beliefs and  unfortunately it’s because we have sown the seeds of hate which made this diversity our weakness, but it can be our power when we become unite like other nations and for that purpose, we should start educating people regarding the importance of diversity and peace building.

Additionally, Intercommunity exchange programs can play a vital role in building understanding between different communities. If I am living with a fear of being convinced by others beliefs, then there is something wrong in my own faith. We should not hesitate to learn about something new, we should not worry about sharing our thoughts and if there are differences we should give respect to them and something inspiring we should take it from them. Being an exchange student, I am living with the fellows from twelve difference countries, we have so many differences in religions, culture, food, and different living style, but still we had so many things in common and we cherish those common things together and we give respect for the differences we have and actually these differences makes our group more colorful and interesting. It’s just been few months that we were strange fellows from different countries and now I consider them like my new family “the NOVA CCI Family” where we share our joy and we support each other when we have problems.

In conclusion, building peace in a society, where enmity has rooted so deep, is very challenging but still giving up is not a solution. So, I will recommend everyone to be open mind and try to experience and learn new things through meeting with people with different thoughts and opinions. Tolerance and patience are important things while discussing on differences among us so we could have a constructive conversation instead of destructive and prefer to discuss the common things we have instead of differences, which will help us to bring more close to each other. The more unite we are the stronger we will be as a nation and vice versa.

Post written by Naik Alam, CCI participant at NOVA, 2016-2017, Pakistan