The Red Flag Campaign is a public awareness campaign designed to address dating violence and promote the prevention of dating violence on college campuses. The campaign was created using a “bystander intervention” strategy, encouraging friends and other campus community members to “say something” when they warning signs (“red flags”) for dating violence in a friend’s relationship. What are some of those red flags?
- Constant phone calls, texts, e-mails, or messages throughout the day or showing up unexpectedly
- Telling you how to dress or act
- Take your money or take advantage of you in other ways
- Try to isolate you and control whom you see or where you go
- Blame you for how they treat you, or for anything bad that happens.
Dating/partner violence is about power and control. Research indicates that in 21% of college dating relationships, one of the partners is being abused. College aged women (16-24) experience the highest per capita rate of intimate partner violence. Recognize a red flag in a friend’s relationship? Violence and abuse in relationships usually continues and often gets worse over time if no action is taken to stop it. You can help your friend by being honest about your concerns. Say something!
If you are in need of services or have questions regarding red flags in a relationship, please contact NOVA SAS at firstname.lastname@example.org or text/call 703-338-0834 (24 hours / 7 days a week). We can help you approach a friend to let them know that you are concerned and help guide them to resources.
-Written by: Angela Acosta, Sexual Assault Services (SAS) Outreach Specialist, NOVACares Office