Ready Player by Ernest Cline has become one of my favorite books this summer. It has deeply indulged my nerdy side, and brought up some of my favorite 80’s movies. I thoroughly enjoyed this book, and had such a hard time putting it down. Nerdy things are great, but they often suffer from being male-centered with flat female characters, whether it is in video games, comics, or fantasy or science-fiction. In this novel, Ernest Cline managed to make some great social commentary about the way our society could be heading (some of the issues we are facing now), gender, and poverty.
Even if you don’t consider yourself particularly nerdy or geeky, I highly recommend this book!
Recently George Will wrote about the stance that Washington has decided to take when it comes colleges/universities in regard to sexual assaults and rapes on campuses. The proposed changes will hopefully educate colleges on how to handle sexual violence, and how to better provide prevent and provide support within their institutions. It is also an attempt to keep these institutions from overlooking them, sweeping them under the rug, or outright dissuading victims from reporting to police. That is quite a general explanation, and this post provides more information and links to what is going on.
To many these changes sound great and long overdue, but Mr. Will feels quite differently. He writes, “They are learning that when they say campus victimizations are ubiquitous (“micro-aggressions,” often not discernible to the untutored eye, are everywhere), and that when they make victimhood a coveted status that confers privileges, victims proliferate. ” If he sat down and talked with victims, I highly doubt that they feel privileged or as though they are in a coveted status. It is not as though there are unreasonable requests being made, most people who have been victims of sexual of violence would benefit from having safe places, and environment where they are not being shamed for being a victim.
This kind of mentality just reinforces #yesallwomen, and how it is normalized in our society. He calls them “micro-aggressions”, and I call them those moments where I would feel the need to say something or just leave because it is not worth it for me to stay in an environment where I feel uncomfortable or potentially unsafe. He can call the whatever he likes, but that does not make them any less valid, nor does it minimize how it ties into the overarching issue of sexual violence.
As promised, here is another book to add to your summer reading, if you have never had a chance to sit down and read this great piece. Toni Morrison presents some memorable characters in this novel. Morrison’s works are deeply layered, and one of the most fascinating layers is the examination of the relationships between women, whether it is a mother and her daughter, or two friends. This is definitely a must read, and we would love to hear your thoughts on the novel.
June is PTSD awareness month and it is important to be aware and mindful of what survivors of traumatic events go through afterwards. More awareness can lead to better treatment options and more help for those suffering from PTSD.
RAINN gives a breakdown of PTSD and treatments that are available: