Dating/partner violence is a pattern of behaviors between individuals who are or have been involved in an intimate relationship in which an individual inflicts emotional, financial, psychological, sexual and/or physical harm to his/her partner to assert power and control. Dating/partner violence is abuse within an intimate relationship regardless of marital status and does not depend on whether the couple lives together. It happens in heterosexual and same-sex relationships. Some behaviors within dating/partner violence are considered criminal.
If you or someone you know sees the warning signs in their relationship then remember you are not alone and that you have the option to seek help. You can always reach out to NOVACares by filling out the NOVACares report or by contacting NOVA Sexual Assault Services (SAS) directly at nova.sas@nvcc.edu or 703-338-0834.
http://www.nvcc.edu/novacares/index.html
Below are a list of warning signs
Explosive temper
Using physical violence such as choking, pushing or hitting
Extreme jealousy or insecurity
Checking emails, cellphones and social media without permission
Isolation from family and friends
Controlling partner’s movements or decisions and/or finances
Coercing or forcing partner to engage in unwanted or nonconsensual sexual acts
Constantly insulting or putting down partner and/or humiliating partner in public or in front of loved ones
Making false accusations
Possessiveness
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